33. Stephen and Maraes Married Life Begins At the conclusion of the days programme Stephen & his bride were taken in the Mary Ann to their new home at Taipa where this native woman soon adapted herself to her new environment of European civilisation & became a very capable domestic wife. She set out to learn the language of her husband & within 12 months time had accomplished it in a very masterly manner. Both parties became very attached to each other & the union grew into a love rather than a betrothal association, which delighted all concerned as Mr Wrathall Senr had feared that, not previously knowing eash other, there was that possible chance that their sentiments may not harmonise & that is the advantage in lifes romance of a courtship prior to marriage which could not be made to apply in this case. However, everything moved on smoothly until the Mary Ann took the news of the event to Australia in a letter to Mrs Wrathall informing her of Stephens marriage to this NZ Native woman. 34. Tending The Taipa Stock The vessel having now cleared port after her interrupted trip to Tauranga in connection with the wedding meant the return of all the workmen back to their respective jobs at the pits & in the bushes & Mr Wrathall went up to the Orutu homestead to see how the operations on the ranch were progressing. He found that the whole of the 200 acres that he had burnt was now a great green area, the whole burn smothering in a NZ natural clover & as it was such a good sward that he decided to get the cattle back to graze the area & keep the growth controlled. John & Moko went out to the back country to muster the stock each day, returning with mobs from different localities until the clean-up, when they discovered in the recount that 6 calves & their mothers were missing & also 3 brood mares with foals were short mustered. Hoping that they would come out of the bush later, no further attention was paid to them, & as the fencing operations had to be proceeded with at once, Mr Wrathall decided to let the missing stock take their chances in the meantime. Later however, Pawai sent 2 natives out into the bush in search of the stock & they discovered them well back about 20 miles from where they were liberated, grazing on the bush growth in the dense forest at the foot of the Mangataniwha mountain. The calves were very wild and there was no possible chance of driving them in trackless NZ bush so all hopes were abandoned & Mr Wrathall decided that as far as he was concerned, he would not bother with them. The horses also were not found, although the natives came across their tracks at a spot where they crossed a stream; so the cattle & horses both became inbred & very soon increased to such an extent that the forest country near the Mangataniwha range was soon well-stocked with wild cattle & horses, all descended from those that got away from Wrathalls ranch at Orutu. The stock at the homestead was given careful attention & soon they so increased that Mr Wrathall was able to slaughter the fat steers for beef & keep up a fairly regular supply. John was managing the stock & the whole of the proceeds from the sale of stock was placed in his credit. A separate set of books was opened by Mr Wrathall in whish all debits & credits of the ranch operations were recorded so that when the final adjustments of both interests were undertaken, both the sons would be equitably dealt with. 35. Mary Ann Wrathall Disapproves of Stephens Marriage The domestic life of Stephens Taipa home was all that could be desired & everything was running smoothly until a bombshell arrived from Australia in the shape of a letter from sts mother addressed to Stephen & the text of which read: Dear Stephen, The awful news has reached me of your marriage, the effect of which has caused sleepless nights & I earnestly state that as much as I admire the spirit of adventure that prompted you & John to try your luck in NZ, I can now only express regret at the outcome of it scince you have elected to take that fatal step & bring shame & disgrace upon me by marrying a negress. I never did think that tou above all Stephen, my first born, whom I cherished & watched through life, would marry so. Your mothers heart is now broken to think that I had cared for you so tenderly through your childhood days & later in your youthful and early manhood days & then for you to forget all that & throw yourself away on an aboraiginal & uncultured woman, one whom you could never take into civilised society & one who is bound to drag you down to the last rung of the social ladder. Stephen, I can never forgive you when I think that you have practically ruined the names of your fathers & your mothers families in the old land where the names of both Wrathall & Walker were held in such high esteem. I want to impress vividly upon tou your awful blunder & how it has not only affected yourself but the effect it will have upon all who should feel proud to carry the name of Wrathall by posteritys reflection that your descendants are the offspring of the Maoris , a coloured & cannibal race. I write this note to you not in haste, but as a result of mature consideration & I want to state that this is the last letter you will ever receive from your once dear mother: the blow is too severe & I shall soon be called to the peaceful Land beyond where sorrow shall be no more. Good-bye Stephen, & God bless you. From your loving mother.